• You’re dependable, capable, and often the one others lean on

• You struggle to rest without guilt or explanation

• You say yes automatically—and wonder later why you’re depleted

• You feel responsible for other people’s emotions or outcomes

• You’re trying to follow God faithfully, but aren’t sure how to balance love, boundaries, and self-respect

This isn’t about becoming less generous.
It’s about becoming more honest.

What the Over-Giving Audit is:

• A gentle self-reflection, not a personality test

• A way to notice patterns, not label yourself

• Grounded in compassion, faith, and clarity

• Designed to help you slow down and listen—without pressure

What it is not:

• A diagnosis

• A list of rules or boundaries you “should” set

• A productivity tool

• A demand to change everything at once

You don’t need to fix yourself to begin.

Inside the audit, you’ll be invited to:

• Notice where your giving feels life-giving, and where it feels costly

• Identify patterns of obligation, fear, or self-erasure

• Separate generosity from over-responsibility

• Reflect on how your faith, identity, and boundaries intersect

• Name what you may need more of before deciding what to give

No one will see your answers unless you choose to share them.

Many women were taught (explicitly or implicitly) that being helpful is the same as being good, faithful, or lovable.
Over time, that belief can quietly disconnect us from our own needs, limits, and voice.

This audit creates space to pause before changing, to notice before deciding, to tell the truth without shame.